I love my hubby but I don't always like him? Is he being unreasonable?

when he comes home from work he makes me bow down to him at his feet and i have to say %26quot;good evening Master%26quot; he then expects me to take his shoes off and bring him a glass of water..i then have to serve him dinner (a three course meal which i spent all day cooking) after dinner he watches t.v or does the paperwork he has me kneel at his feet until he tells me to go get something for him..e.g. beer / sandwich..i have to take leave of him to go run his bathwater..after he has his bath i dry him and help him put his robe on..then i give him a long massage..in bed (and out of bed) he makes me call him Master or Sir and im not really allowed to say no to anything he asks ..this is a typical day for us..sometimes i feel like he expects too much from me but then again he works so hard and takes good care of me..is it ok for me to do these things for him?

I love my hubby but I don%26#039;t always like him? Is he being unreasonable?
No, its actually abuse. My husband takes care of me too, I don%26#039;t work I take care of our daughter I cook him dinner and clean but what hes asking of you is wrong your not his slave your his wife and hes acting like your his slave and thats sad that hes treating you that way.
Reply:honey..if he gives you whatever it is you need and you are happy then keep up the good work....personally I would hang myself in the shower if I had to put up with that weird fluff
Reply:You say that there is love here, but how?


dose he really talk to you, dose he tell you his problems or listens to yours?


Do you two really talk at all?


seems to me that respect and love is a deep void here.


I cant imagine treating my wife to be like this at all, fact id be wanting to rub her feet and message her back when she needs.


In any relationship there is give along with take but the really good ones don%26#039;t demand of it they give back when receiving.
Reply:There are plenty of d/s web sites if you want to find out how to work out your d/s relationship issues. Otherwise, talk to your husband about it. If he doesn%26#039;t listen, you can get therapy to help you get out or help you figure out if it is worth your time to stay with him under your present conditions.





This question should be in the relationship area, not women%26#039;s studies, I don%26#039;t think you%26#039;re going to find a lot of d/s savvy people in this forum, or many other Yahoo forum%26#039;s for that matter.
Reply:LMAO. You just created your account today to ask this question? Reminds me of the movie _Secretary_, except your story is slightly lamer, since there%26#039;s no way your husband is as hot or as good an actor as James Spader.





Yeah, these things are %26quot;OK%26quot; if you feel OK with them. If you don%26#039;t feel like doing them, if you%26#039;re tired, then simply don%26#039;t do them. Tell him you don%26#039;t feel like doing them. No big deal. If he%26#039;s not an asshole, he%26#039;ll understand.





I haven%26#039;t known any D/S relationships where both partners were in character *all the time*. Maybe you need to drop the character for half the day and go accomplish some other things with your life.





Trust me. Your husband doesn%26#039;t work *that* hard to deserve all that. Ask him to give you a massage once in a while.
Reply:Are you for real???? Honey, either you have a very vivid imagination or you like being a stepped-on doormat. Either way, get the HE*L out of it.
Reply:Honey you need to divorce his behind. He doesn%26#039;t respect you and he%26#039;s not worthy of you. I think you know in how many ways this is wrong for him to do but you need to voice your opinion. He should treat you like a queen and treat you with the respect he thinks he deserves. You know you%26#039;re worth more.
Reply:No sympathy here. You married him and you%26#039;re staying with him. Does he know you%26#039;re online?





ETA: you joined today (the 22nd) and you%26#039;ve posted the same question four times in three forums.
Reply:Perfectly reasonable.





He works to bring home the bacon, the least you can do is take care of him.





Women should be subserviant to men.
Reply:you are a slave...
Reply:This sounds like a male-fantasy-question, rather than a real-life-female-question.





You ain%26#039;t a Sara, you%26#039;re a Stephen, tell the truth!
Reply:He does his job and you should do yours at home.
Reply:WAKE UP! You are dreaming! Cause this ain%26#039;t happening!





Any others coming in here wonder why GWS is such a joke.





I%26#039;m on to you silly person - we know this isn%26#039;t a real question.





Seriously? I never know because of the troll situation - it didn%26#039;t seem real!


If this is real - why are you asking so many times in a row?



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