Is it OK for my hubby to be my Master?

when he comes home from work he makes me bow down to him at his feet and i have to say %26quot;good evening Master%26quot; he then expects me to take his shoes off and bring him a glass of water..i then have to serve him dinner (a three course meal which i spent all day cooking) after dinner he watches t.v or does the paperwork he has me kneel at his feet until he tells me to go get something for him..e.g. beer / sandwich..i have to take leave of him to go run his bathwater..after he has his bath i dry him and help him put his robe on..then i give him a long massage..in bed (and out of bed) he makes me call him Master or Sir and im not really allowed to say no to anything he asks ..this is a typical day for us..sometimes i feel like he expects too much from me but then again he works so hard and takes good care of me..is it ok for me to do these things for him?

Is it OK for my hubby to be my Master?
Be your own person and get out while you can. Don%26#039;t be afraid to be independent, it will make you happier in the long run. If at some point he decides to leave you then at least you will be able to take care of yourself. If he loves you, he will respect your decision. Don%26#039;t lie to yourself and make excuses that you are happy. If you were happy you wouldn%26#039;t be asking...
Reply:Are you well? This is NOT OK? Why are you tolerating this blatant abuse?! See a counselor. The best to you...
Reply:If thats what you want then fine. Personally I think you deserve better then that. I think a relationship should be equal and he should do just as much for you as you do for him. It all depends on your mentality and what reasons you think this is ok (which you probably dont think it is considering you%26#039;re asking this question) and if its what you want and what makes you happy, then do what you want.








But no, if you have a healthy self self image and feel good about yourself, this is not ok.
Reply:Absolutely not! You%26#039;re his wife, not his slave! There is a huge difference. You should be allowed to say no if you don%26#039;t want to do something. A marriage is supposed to be a partnership. He may work, but does that mean what you%26#039;re doing isn%26#039;t important? Have you ever wanted to do anything else? Just because he works isn%26#039;t an excuse for his actions. First of all, you need to get some self esteem, so you realize not you and not anyone deserves to be treated like this. It%26#039;s one thing to do nice things for your man, its another to be forced into it. Please realize that.
Reply:HA HA HA he WISHED!!
Reply:WHAT???????!!!!!!!!!! Your husband must of seen you coming a mile away? If you are going to let him treat you this way and not fight back, I guess you deserve what you get.
Reply:No that%26#039;s crazy
Reply:every guy works extremyly hard and would like LITTLE things from his wife(massage, hair rubs, the dirty dirty) but what he has you do is wayyyy too much.
Reply:tell him to have some respect for you since you are his wife.


he sees you as a slave not as his wife or a person.


get yourself out of that situation and find yourself a job.
Reply:You are joking right?
Reply:I hope you%26#039;re kidding.
Reply:okay do you feel ugly or undesirable is the reason you take his crap?
Reply:Thats insane. He married you, he didnt gain ownership of you. Divorce him.
Reply:if you%26#039;re serious, you%26#039;re also a very foolish lady
Reply:I am sorry and not trying to be rude but that kind of relationship isn%26#039;t even a relationship! It isn%26#039;t going to work! When you get married each partner *emphasis on each* has to help out! If you are treated like that he is going to start asking you to do crazier things and can become very domineering maybe even abusive... And putting his robe on and calling him master?? That is just plain rude to ask you to do. It doesn%26#039;t feel like he has many feelings for you. Its not like you are a wife. Its more like you are a servant! This is all my opinion though so you can choose to listen to it or not.
Reply:Are you serious? IF you are - I%26#039;d go see a marriage counselor - OR if he won%26#039;t go - just go to a personal counselor for yourself. You%26#039;ll be told very quickly how NOT OK this is. Even if you enjoy it it%26#039;s not healthy. You have to have an opinion and desires, likes and dislikes, a choice in life. Mostly the right to be an individual deserving the respect of your husband. YOU ARE NOT HIS SLAVE, HE DOESN%26#039;T OWN YOU.
Reply:Are you for real or are you a freaken idiot?
Reply:I could see if it was a sex slave sort of thing or roleplaying.





But all that is a little too much, I wouldn%26#039;t do it.
Reply:If that%26#039;s what turns you on. Honestly If you don%26#039;t feel bad about what your doing and you both are perfectly fine with this arrangement then don%26#039;t worry about what anybody thinks about it. It seems a bit over the top, but whatever works for you.......Where%26#039;s Wendy G!!!!
Reply:You are his Queen and he should do the same for you.
Reply:Are you Jeannie? or just nuts. Unless you enjoy this leave the creep.
Reply:LOL... i think you have brain damage or something... but then again... there are quite a few people like you... that aren%26#039;t really too bright... or maybe your just lying, this is the internet. whatever your reason is for asking this dumb question, i%26#039;ll pretend its true and tell you that its time for you to leave that scum bag!!!
Reply:It%26#039;s a big world. just be careful.
Reply:No thats rubbish! you cant let a man make you his slave you have your life too... you have to show him right from wrong caz he thinks you like working for him and you have to show him what its like to be controlled over STOP doing it he need to be shown what its like
Reply:if thats wht cha like.
Reply:That is not ok for him to treat you like that!!! There are other great men out there that will take care of you as well as run your bath water, cook you food, etc. You don%26#039;t need that from him!!! The grass is greener on the other side...you need better.
Reply:Sounds like he thinks rather fondly of himself. I hope it%26#039;s all in jest and you two laugh about it later and he does something for you to make up for his piggishness.
Reply:this is a VERY personal thing - if you like to continue doing all these for the rest of your life, there%26#039;s really no harm. The only possible problem is when the time comes and you think you don%26#039;t want to %26quot;serve him hand and foot%26quot; anymore - what will happen? Remember, NOTHING is permanent
Reply:If this is a joke, you%26#039;re laying it on kind of thick, don%26#039;t you think?





If it%26#039;s not a joke, I want you to listen very carefully.....get out now, before he takes this master thing even more seriously than he does (if that%26#039;s possible.) You need to show yourself some respect.
Reply:NO! thats.. sexcist he expects the woman to do ALL the work, which is not fair, you can sue him for that



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