I love my hubby but I don't always like him? Is he being unreasonable?

when he comes home from work he makes me bow down to his feet and i have to say %26quot;good evening Master%26quot; he then expects me to take his shoes off and bring him a glass of water which is ok i guess..i then have to serve him dinner (a three course meal which i spent all day cooking) after dinner he watches t.v or does the paperwork he has me kneel at his feet until he tells me to go get something for him..e.g. beer / sandwich..i have to take leave of him to go run his bathwater..after he has his bath i dry him and help him put his robe on..then i give him a massage or a lapdance whatever he prefers..in bed im not allowed to say no to anything he asks..this is a typical day for us..sometimes i feel like he expects too much from me but then again he works so hard and takes good care of me..is it ok for me to do these things for him?

I love my hubby but I don%26#039;t always like him? Is he being unreasonable?
if you ever get tired of doing those things for him let me know...





you can do them for me anytime.
Reply:um find a new dude
Reply:If you want to do these things, then it is OK. If you are only doing it because you are afraid of the consequences, then it is not OK. He sounds pretty unreasonable to me and I don%26#039;t think he is showing much love or respect for you.
Reply:It works for some but not most
Reply:Sure it%26#039;s of for you to do these things, if you want to. At the same time, It sounds like he%26#039;s kinda domineering..... REALLY domineering.





How do you think he%26#039;d take it if you said something to the effect of...


%26quot;Honey, I love you so much, but I really don%26#039;t feel that this is right. I don%26#039;t deserve to be treated like this. Marriage is about a partnership, there should be give and take by both partners. It shouldn%26#039;t be about the wife catering to her husband%26#039;s whims, it%26#039;s not about one spouse doing what he or she wants and the other being a slave.


%26quot;I%26#039;d like to be a true help-meet for you. I want to be your equal, your partner, your best friend, but I can%26#039;t when be that when I%26#039;m your slave.%26quot;





What do you think he%26#039;d say? Would he be ok with it or would he get upset?





If he would get upset, then you need a new man.
Reply:I really don%26#039;t believe this is a real question. No one would allow anyone to treat them like this, unless they are stupid, and have no self respect!!!!
Reply:Well of course it%26#039;s okay! While you%26#039;re kneeling at his feet though, you should be rubbing them. You sound like a good wife and you%26#039;ll have a long and happy marriage. Keep up the good work.
Reply:yeah right.....





you must be Sandstorm%26#039;s other account......
Reply:Are you his wife, or his slave? Does it bother you that you are being reduced to such a degrading level? If it doesn%26#039;t then I guess you have nothing to worry about. If it does then I believe you already know the answer to this.
Reply:Are you married to Sandstorm?



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