Sunday, April 19, 2009

Is it OK for my hubby to be my Master?

when he comes home from work he makes me bow down to him at his feet and i have to say %26quot;good evening Master%26quot; he then expects me to take his shoes off and bring him a glass of water..i then have to serve him dinner (a three course meal which i spent all day cooking) after dinner he watches t.v or does the paperwork he has me kneel at his feet until he tells me to go get something for him..e.g. beer / sandwich..i have to take leave of him to go run his bathwater..after he has his bath i dry him and help him put his robe on..then i give him a long massage..in bed (and out of bed) he makes me call him Master or Sir and im not really allowed to say no to anything he asks ..this is a typical day for us..sometimes i feel like he expects too much from me but then again he works so hard and takes good care of me..is it ok for me to do these things for him?

Is it OK for my hubby to be my Master?
What, no head?
Reply:Looks funny. may be your husband is living about 1000 years back. I feel pity for you. All husbands serve and run families and do not expect this from any body and I do not think the present day woman will do what you are doing.
Reply:It%26#039;s only OK if you enjoy it too. Is this how you were raised? What was your parents%26#039; relationship like? If you feel you want to make some changes you will need to see a marriage councilor at this point as you will need an advocate.
Reply:What the hell country do you live in?





If in the USA, you%26#039;re obviously not from the USA.





We don%26#039;t put up with that crap.
Reply:if you want to do all these things for your hubby thats fine. if not then stand up to him
Reply:Do you like this kind of treatment, and is it everyday? Are you guys Muslim?





If you%26#039;re not down with this (and I don%26#039;t think you are) you should probably talk to him about this.





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Reply:It shouldnt take you all day to cook a three course meal. That time could be better spent mowing the grass.
Reply:What will happen when you have kids, or have a family emergency? The slave thing only works for 30 minutes in the bedroom after that it%26#039;s just another bad episode of Jerry Springer
Reply:no ur more like a slave
Reply:you are to do everything he says !!!





how dare you question his authority!





who said you could have a life??
Reply:I would look up a good divorce lawyer. What attracted you to him in the first place? Sounds like he has a mental disorder.
Reply:Is this a sexual thing? I agree with the first person, it sounds like you%26#039;re his slave, why would you do that? Have some self-respect. Even if he takes care of you, in a relationship both partners should always be equal. I mean, HELLO we%26#039;re in the 21st century, not the stone-age.
Reply:If he is making you do it against you will then it%26#039;s wrong and considered abuse but if that%26#039;s your %26#039;thing%26#039; then go for it. I don%26#039;t foresee a marriage lasting very long though when the wife is treated like a slave instead of an equal.
Reply:most married men will tell you that it is normally the other way around!!!!



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