Wednesday, April 15, 2009

I know this is wrong but I love humiliating people and I just can't stop what should I do?!?

I love blackmailing people and degrading them. Like once my girlfriend dumped me and then wanted to get back together the next day. I told her to get on her knees, kiss my shoes and beg for mercy. She did but didn%26#039;t kiss my shoes so I began calling her names like worthless *****. Then she walked away and yelled out one of her secrets she told me in front of everyone in school.


Another time I found out my little 14 year old sister was smoking with her friends so I blackmailed her. I told her she has to be my servant for a week or I%26#039;d tell our parents. I made her massage my feet and do my choirs. I don%26#039;t know why but I felt good! I felt powerful and on top! What%26#039;s wrong with me?!

I know this is wrong but I love humiliating people and I just can%26#039;t stop what should I do?!?
Because you have nothing going for yourself. You are a SMALL worthless human being, and the only way for you to feel like you are ANYTHING, is to put down others that ARE better than you. You are a control freak, and that makes you feel like a big man. Instead of being such a negative person, you need to a 360, and try being just the opposite. You will be surprised just how GOOD it will make you feel.
Reply:I do not know the correct psychological description but it sounds like a sadist. Did you get a sexual high out this behavior? If you did, then you are a sadist. There are many sociopaths in society as well.





Your problem is that you will eventually find someone who will put a bullet through your head. I doubt that this is in any way curable.





I suggest that you take up S%26amp;M as an accepted outlet for this sick lust OR seek the protection of Jesus Christ.
Reply:lol, Maybe you need a hobby or some interest to get into that will allow you to interact with people better. Group activities.





Something else that%26#039;ll make you feel successful or powerful without making other people feel like crap.





Find something productive to get into that will gain the respect of others.


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What%26#039;s wrong with you?


Well, you kinda seem like an ****** that lacks compassion.


But you%26#039;re not hopeless because you had enough compassion to realize something was wrong with you.


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And if you%26#039;re not able to fix this problem of yours...


Don%26#039;t worry about it.





There%26#039;s a career and life style waiting for you... it%26#039;s called middle management.





It%26#039;s a lot like one of the levels of hell in Dante%26#039;s Inferno.


You%26#039;ll pay what you owe. =P
Reply:Sounds like your problem is you have a foot fetish. While I personally, don%26#039;t get it, I don%26#039;t think that its a %26quot;problem%26quot; unless you are devoutly religious and your particular religion frowns on fetishes. I say do what feels good.
Reply:man youre sick =/ you should probably think before you do anything bad towards anyone around you, because what comes around GOES around and its going to get you soon
Reply:well when u feel like humiliating others think about how they feel and take that into consirderation before acting and if that dont work u could look in the mirrior
Reply:baby you sound just like me. theres nothing wrong with wantin things done when you want it done. i like to use people also it fun and its great. if i have something on people i blackmail the hel.l out them too. you go do the dam.n thing...
Reply:You need therapy because you definitely have a “power control” issue. It stems from low self esteem in yourself so you like to make others feel powerless in order to make yourself feel better about you. Obviously you need to find another way to feel good about yourself. As for the people you are humiliating and black mailing, I would definitely apologize no matter how much it hurts your pride; you know it’s the right thing to do. If you keep going down this road your actions will continue to get worse and you’ll start acting out in more dangerous ways. Seek therapy. Good luck.
Reply:I think that your issues must go back rather far. To do these types of things may not be physically violent but they sure are emotionally so. I have found a few links that may help you try and understand what may push you to this emotional violence and why you do it. I think you do have a real problem. You like to %26quot;Emotionally Blackmail%26quot; people. That is the term and if you look it up you can finds lots of material on this. Try and get some help because this path is certainly not healthy for you.


What will give you a sense of power now will in the end make you alone and it will drive those who do care for you away.


Are you doing this because someone has made you feel worthless? If so, how is this going to solve the problem? How can you feel good without causing more hurt? It will come back and bite you of you don%26#039;t stop. Good Luck!



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